Episode 110- Why Submission Doesn’t Mean Weakness in Christian Marriage

What if ‘submission’ in marriage was never about control, but about strength, trust, and God’s design for love?

In this episode, Doc Jess and Holly (Mrs. Q) dive into an often-misunderstood topic, what it truly means to be a Christian wife. 

Holly shares her raw perspective on why the word “submissive” has always felt heavy, while Jess reframes it through biblical truth, showing how submission is less about weakness and more about trust, timing, and partnership. Together, they discuss forgiveness, the weight of leadership in a marriage, and how communication can either break or build the bond between husband and wife.

Don’t miss this powerful conversation—tune in now and discover how to build a marriage rooted in faith, trust, and love. 

Timestamps:

00:08 -- Welcome to The Mental Health Janitors Podcast

02:56 -- Why the Word 'Submission' Triggers So Many Christian Women 

05:51 -- Jordan Peterson's Metaphor and Parenting Dynamics

12:09 -- Challenges in Communication and Constructive Feedback

18:10 -- The Role of a Helpmeet and Submission in Marriage 

22:02 – The Tension Between Wanting Independence and Partnership 

25:21 – Mutual Submission in Marriage When Wives Lead in Some Areas

27:16 – When Not to Submit Biblical Grounds for Exceptions

28:52 – Consent and Boundaries in Christian Marriage

30:20 – Husbands Responsibility Beyond Dying for the Family Living for Them

32:21 – Submission Is Voluntary Not Forced 

43:18 -- The Importance of Self-Reflection and Honesty  

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